Too Much Togetherness Is Killing Team Productivity

When the group broke out in a fight over who got the green kayak, I knew it was bad. At one point in my life, I ran an academic and life skills summer sleep-away camp. You know, the kind with friendship bracelets, ropes courses, and a suspicious amount of bug spray. The kids would show […]
Your Team Needs To Act More Like Vampire Bats

No, I’m not telling you to ask HR to start putting pints of blood in the break room. Stay with me.. Vampire bats have a bizarre survival strategy that’s surprisingly relevant to your team. In the wild, if a bat fails to feed one night, it doesn’t just cross its wings and hope for better […]
Would You Spill Your Feelings to a Robot? Your Team Might Already Be Doing It

Turns out, the most empathetic ‘person’ on your team might be a chatbot. I was recently working with a company exploring ways to support employee mental health as a way to increase employee engagement. Their HR lead put it bluntly: “Our EAP (Employee Assistance Program) is a ghost town, and no one wants to be […]
The Hidden Cost of Tight-Knit Teams: How to Fix a Bounded Culture

Does your team feel more like Cross-Fit or Alcoholics Anonymous? I was working with a leader named Cara who ran a high-performing, close-knit team at a SaaS company. Her people loved each other. Their Slack was chaos in the best way, custom emojis, inside jokes, birthday gifs, and more gifs. It was the kind of […]
How to Break Up Office Cliques Without Breaking Your Culture

The one rule we had to repeat every year to our staff was, “No summer camp love connections!” This was part of a 10-day summer program I helped run for high school and college students. We trained the staff on how to help the students connect, but never too much. Why? Because if two students […]
What a Litter Campaign Can Teach You About Employee Engagement

“Don’t mess with Texas” didn’t just fight litter—it sparked a movement. Back in the early 2000s, 95% of Texans could instantly recognize that slogan. It wasn’t just a clever tagline. It was cultural. It was tribal. And it worked. Within one year of launching the campaign, Texas saw a 29% drop in roadside litter. Six […]
How I Helped a 100% Remote Company Build a Stronger Team Culture

Company culture didn’t die with the office—leaders just stopped trying. I was brought in by a CEO who ran a fully remote company and was in full-on “culture panic mode” because people were quitting without much of a reason. “We’re getting the work done,” she told me, “but the team feels… off. Disconnected. Like everyone’s […]
11 Creative Ways to Celebrate a Birthday via Zoom: Building Human Connection in a Digital Workspace

When our team closed our physical office during the COVID pandemic and first transitioned to remote work, our birthday celebrations became an afterthought as a quick message in the group chat or a shout out during the virtual daily team huddle. Overall it lacked the kind of love, care, and appreciation that came from in-person […]
Stop Blaming Your Team, You Might Be The Issue

The dude was sleeping… right there in the front row of my keynote speech! After over 20 years of professional speaking and 1000s of programs, I’ve never seen someone pull a full-on nap during one of my talks—especially in the front row! My first reaction was to call for a bucket of cold water. For […]
Save your money: Build a strong team culture with Micro-Actions

Take a moment and look at this table with marbles on it. Do you see over 50 marbles or less than 50 marbles? When it comes to engagement and building a Culture of Connection™, it actually doesn’t matter which answer you choose. The simple act of picking a number and potentially finding others who share […]